It’s your college graduation day and you’re sitting in a sea of gowns and soon to be college graduates. You look to your left and see your mom waving at you and telling you to smile because she wants a good photo to show your aunts and uncles. You look past your mom and see the rest of the family sitting in the bleachers looking through the graduation program to find your name. Your whole family is sitting in those bleachers except your dad. Not because he was working and couldn’t make it, but because he’s at his own graduation ceremony in a different city. Didn’t see that coming right? Of course not.